Do You Call Your Manager By Their First Name [POLL]

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Early in my career, I had a manager that expected to be addressed as Mr. LAST NAME. I thought it was sexist, elitist, insulting, weird. But after that one boss, I never experienced that again. Until recently.

I was trying to schedule an appointment with someone. Their administrative assistant was coordinating the meeting (not unusual) but the admin was referring to their manager as Mr. LAST NAME. It seemed weird. Especially in today’s work environment, where organizations are focused on building workplaces that are inclusive and welcoming. 

Since that interaction, the whole “how do you address your manager” thing has weighed on my mind. I found an article on Ask a Manager titled “Office insists we refer to higher-ups as Mr. or Ms.” from a few years ago. It’s a good read if you want to check it out. 

But it got me thinking. We spend a lot of time talking about the importance of the manager / employee relationship. People regularly say, “Employees don’t leave companies. They leave bad managers.” The way people address each other could set the stage for the work relationship and the company culture. 

So, I thought it might be helpful to learn more and I’m very interested in your comments. I hope you’ll take a moment to respond to this HR Bartender completely anonymous one-question poll. If it did not come through via email, I hope you will click through and share your thoughts. 

How do you address your boss in a conversation with them?

• Last name (Mr/Ms Smith), because everyone uses last names here
• Something else, like we have office nicknames here
• First name
• Last name (Mr/Ms Smith), because my boss expects or requests it
• Some other answer not mentioned here
• Last name (Mr/Ms Smith), because I view it as a sign of respect

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I know I don’t have to say it, but I’ll say it anyway. Let’s resist the temptation to share those colorful names that might be used between coworkers or found on the Reddit Anti-work sub. In other words, serious answers please. As always, I appreciate you taking the time to respond. We’ll share the answers in a couple of weeks. Thanks!

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